Everybody has two images and perceptions about themselves. One dwells upon reality while the other on what they want to be. We always want to be a better ’us’. Yet, this constant turmoil and fight within ourselves does not often yield results, because we keep on making the same mistakes time and time again. If we are not pleased with this mental image, we are not getting what we deserve.
Here are 5 things you should do better and take care of to get what you deserve.
1. Don’t be envious of others
How jealous are you of another? We may be envious of people who are closer to us and are climbing the ladder of success more easily. It is natural to feel like this, but it’s unhealthy if this becomes an obsession.
While we are busy being envious of others, we do not see what we have in our life. Most of the time we remain anxious of strangers and the bottom line of ‘grass is always greener’ syndrome keeps us from our aims. We are just too occupied thinking of them and their deeds than taking action ourselves!
Being envious or angry never heals us but always takes our happiness away. This unhealthy obsession keeps us from doing what we should do in order to achieve our goals.
2. It’s important to keep on trying
Everybody has a hard day out. By waiting for a day to end just because it is bad, is a sign that we have given up. What we forget is that there is a silver lining in everything. Often, what separates the winners from the failures is the right attitude.
3. Don’t go behind schedule
Finishing work within time is an art. Be ready to face that fact that everyday can’t be fun and you need to keep on the zeal to work on a better future. It’s often we who stop working towards our goals. Ask yourself, have you done something in the day that will help you achieve your goal? We need to remain focused on what need to be done.
4. Life doesn’t always go as planned
In life everyone has ups and downs. Things are bound to go haywire one time or the other. Face your problems as a curve ball and give it your best shot. Even if life lets you down for moments never lie there pick yourself up and continue your journey. It may take time and we need this time to take care of our mental well-being so we can navigate the challenges of our daily life.
5. Your Doubt Everything
Sometimes we are never sure of ourselves and if it is allowed to linger it will have a bad influence on us. If you are unsure, discuss your options and choose the best path. Don’t give up or just keep pondering – miracles will never happen.
It’ never late to stop and think of what we do need. If you are unsure whether you are settling for less than you deserve, get dear on your goals and attain the great compass of life: clarity.